Thursday, July 25, 2013

燕子与我家邻居的故事


几乎整个假期,我都在家里闷着。之前还有蛮多计划的,怎知一个也没进行到。
我突然觉得大学的假期分配得不够均匀。在大学里就拼命想要放个假,可以回个家;一放假就一下放两个月,待在家里闷得发慌。之前对家日思恋夜思恋的我,现在却在家里如此挥霍着假期。心情真的有够矛盾的。

不如说个燕子与我家邻居的故事吧!

有一对燕子夫妻也偶然飞到我家。它们看中我家风水不错加上环境幽静,就在我家柱子筑起了窝,当起了邻居。

最先知道燕子大驾光临的是我妈,因为她不喜欢它们这对夫妇随意拉屎,把地上一处撒得满满一堆的,我也觉得它们没礼貌。我妈还说∶“他们很厉害叻,睡觉时尾巴还是在窝外面,不是朝窝内。这样窝里很干净,但外面炸弹炸得满地都是。”每次我妈洗地到了那一区,无可奈何就只好特别加强一下。


数年前的某一天,我家邻居搬了进来。他们一家四口主要是做些小生意的。以男生的眼光嘛,那两位女儿外表蛮漂亮的,经常化浓妆出门。最可怕的是,两个女儿的妈,没化妆竟然还比她们更漂亮。我是说真的,所以没想到后面会发生那么一回事。

刚开始他们养两只狗,其中一只是Rottweiler,把我们都吓傻了。心想如果它一口咬我的手臂,手臂若是没断,想必我也一命呜呼了。直到我们用面包贿赂了它,只要我们手持面包喊一声“Sit! " ,它经常乖乖坐在那里,目不转睛猛盯着面包。那时它超可爱的,后来我还经常把手臂伸过篱笆sayang sayang一下,好想念它。每次迎接他们回家的不只是两只狗,还有一大堆“黄金”。风吹进家里,都有一阵阵恶臭。臭死啦!


我家同时迎来了两个,都很不卫生的邻居。

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燕子夫妇呢,他们生了三粒蛋,后来孵出来的三个小瓜经常会在有人经过的时候,唧唧唧叫个不停。一大早就飞出去觅食,打点一家五口的三餐。两夫妇每天飞进飞出为了就是满足雏鸟与日俱增的胃口。到了傍晚,两夫妻就停歇在我家篱笆聊聊天,谈谈心事,恩爱的很。燕子老公不时会说些甜言蜜语,有时听得我不禁起鸡皮疙瘩,但却如此令人称羡。

小瓜们,一日一日长大。从燕子妈妈把三粒蛋,孵成三只小鸟;从只会唧唧叫,到慢慢长出羽毛期待有那么一天学会如何在蓝天里飞翔;从前雏鸟都喜爱温暖的家,到后来恨不得飞出去闯天下。直到有一天,小鸟翅膀长硬了,展翅飞了出去,头也不回的离家而去。那天,燕子妈妈虽然已知会有那一天会这样,但还是因为孩子们的不告而别而哭了。

傍晚时分原本两只燕子在篱笆上的身影,不知道什么时候只剩下一只,显得特孤单。后来剩下的那只也离开,到外头觅属于自己的另一个春。


因为做生意的关系,所以邻居他们一家经常迟出晚归,不到半夜一两点是不回家的。我鲜少看到他们一家的面孔。邻居大女儿通常在外,一家三口经常都是坐一辆车出去,然后半夜又是一辆车回来。后来小女儿中五毕业后,也很少像我这个宅男一样呆在家里,往往都是在外头四处走,四处闯。哎,不要看我一直只说邻家女儿,我的重点是邻居孩子们慢慢都离开了这个家。听我妈说,大女儿嫁人了而小女儿飞到了澳门工作。

女儿离开了,夫妻经常都是各自出门,各自回家。在大学读书的时候,跟妈通电话的时候,我才知道邻居老公有了外遇。天哪,有这么漂亮的老婆竟然还会外遇。Uncle一定是一时糊涂,犯了成龙所谓的“每个男人都会犯的错”。

Uncle经常不回家,都是Aunty独自回家,也很少跟我妈聊家常了。后来,Aunty搬到外面住了,各自过各自的生活,成了熟悉的陌生人。


我家两个邻居,陆续离开这个伤心地。一个遗留下一个空空的窝,一个遗留下一个空空的屋子。

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有天,我跟我妈在公园跑步的时候,她告诉我,怎么我们家邻居跟燕子夫妇这么相像啊。这两对夫妻,到底为了什么而在一起?难道孩子不在家了,慢慢就没有共同的前景,一起前进了?两个人,因为什么而在一起?只为了喜欢在一起,而在一起?

我不懂,真的不知道耶。我怎么那么笨咧?

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Father's Day! :)

Naturally woke up at 8.15am today and first thing I did was to send a SMS to my dad. 
And wished him "Happy Father's Day!". 

Last time, we didn't even celebrate it, at all. 
This is so bad, I didn't even show my gratitude towards my parents for so many years. 
Issh! Why am I so bad boy one!

Actually I wanted to write more in the SMS, but I don't hope both of us getting sad after all. 
He went out from home for work last year, right on the day before Father's Day. 
I got very emotional but still, I don't dare to call or SMS the next day.  
It was my worst father's day ever, and I believe same goes to him. 

There was time when we talked through phone, he might keep quiet for some short intervals. I felt very strange that time and don't understand why. 
But, after I did the same thing too, I understand why is it so. 

He often keep all the things to himself, which is really bad for his health. 
He's very kind, humorous and gets a little bit too skinny after these few months. 
He's a gentleman and I miss his laughter, especially when he is watching entertainment show by Jacky Wu. 

"Hahahahhaahaha!"  :)  

Let's do something positive! Let's hope! 
I hope my father won't have to celebrate father's day like this anymore in future! :) 

Happy Father's Day to All Father! You have worked out enough! 

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Exam days

Just sat for Electronic Devices and Adv. Calculus finals last two days. 

Seriously Devices is really quite disastrous, especially the pi-model question. 
I don't know how to do it lah. 
So I asked lecturer and said this question is so confusing and hoping he would give me some directions. 

Ended up he said " Yes, pi-model! It's just that simple! I already simplified it. You might be able to memorize the whole book, but you won't able to do it without understanding it. Haha. "

*Heartbreak* 


So gosh, I only memorize T-model answer in text book. 
I don't even know it can be drawn in pi-model. :( 
Honestly I only know what I am doing for 3 questions out of 5 questions I did. 

Lalala! It's over! 

I have 5 days to study Digital & French after Calculus, and now left only 4 days since I wasted so many hours watching 2 episodes of Running Man and a movie. 
And I am supposed to study by now, but I am blogging here instead. 

Lalala! Perhaps I should go to library tomorrow. Alone. 
I am so not productive today. Ahh. 
._____. 

Lalala! Let's have some motivation. SEVEN days to home sweet home! *wink* 


Friday, May 31, 2013

3 combo.

These few days, my hostel authorities are being very berry annoying and mean. 

First, they locked my bicycle, because I simply parked it on basement. 
Then, an once-in-a-semester fire drill which is quite meaningless for me. 
And another first time experience. Hostel spot check. *This really.... ISH!*
All these happened in just three days, in combo. 

I "stuffed" my laptop, water heater, printer and a fan into my cupboard. 
Locked it quickly and came out with heart beat of 120. Holy crap. 
How can't they let us live peacefully? 

However had a yumcha session and talk and talk and talk until 1.30 pm. Almost break my record. ;P


Study week now! 

No more quiz / test / assignment/ mini-project/ hands-on etc etc. 
I am still slacking around and do things normally I don't have the time to do, for example, blogging that I am doing now? Hehe. 
I am that sort of person who need to be stressed to perform optimally. 
I am work better under stress, but yet I hate stress. Dilemma. 

Study week has arrived but I am not yet prepared for it.
All of sudden, I feel a little empty. 
However it is relaxing to live such care-free lifestyle, even though just a few days of the study week. 


Friday, March 29, 2013

Mid sem break coming!

One more week to home! Cannot believe that time passes so fast. 

I bet those who know me very well would ask : 

" What? Choky, the super-domesticated emo boy? He said time passes quickly in university? I thought he always said time is ultra slow in university? "

Yeah, I admit I still get home sick sometimes, just not that often like last time in the first semester. I don't really know why, maybe it's because of a speech by one of my relatives, requested by my mum I guess. 

During CNY, we talked a lot about finance and his view on life. Erm, to be more exact, it's him who talked a lot. He once was a small insurance agent and he is now a successful, wealthy person. Honestly I could not digest all of his words and still not interested to sell insurance. However somehow I learnt something from his personality. 

It's just something I could not describe with words. Strange huh? 



Another reason is because I have friends now. Sorry it should be 

"I have MORE friends now!"

Thanks to them who always make me busy and that's why I could not think too much and get home sick! 
And I never know group study can be that effective! HEHE 

T Bin who is handsome, humble, and yet very smart! 
L Jin who is kind, wise and always ask me to chillax! 
K Hooi who is funny, sociable and "yellow" once in a while? 
JR who is ...  talkative and loud? Joking lah! :P
And many more! 

Going to sleep! NIGHT~!

Saturday, March 2, 2013

框架

突然想起天天好天的片段,刚算了算一年爸可以回家的日子到底有多少。三个星期回去三天,平均一个星期一天。一年有五十二个星期,所以有五十二天。凑个整数,就加特别节日特假如新年等等,另加八天,合计六十天吧!

原来还少过如今就读大学的我呀!那么我与他见面的日子更不用说了。够了,不要算了。思念原来与见面的日子,是成反比的。

其实现在的心情是心疼我的老爸还是想念我的老爸,我也分不清楚了。



我觉得,一个家需要内容还有框架。好多家有漂亮的框架但里面没有东西,而我的家有个人觉得很不错的内容但暂时没有框架。不用担心,我懂得乐观。我的家正在进行大装修。我深信,那告别一段日子的框架会回来的,还会是比以前更坚固的。